Tuesday 28 June 2011

五行相生相克

最近身边有朋友正热衷于研究着中华文化的精髓,搞得我也心痒痒想要深究,一直觉得自己枉读了几十年书,于是决定从今天开始每天一小步向老祖宗们学习。(其实,真的可以一天学一样新学问,已经很不错的了!)。几十年来,有一些疑问摆在心底很久,却一直没心肝似的不积极把它给搞清楚,今天总算踏出第一步了。

所有熟悉中华文化的人对于“阴阳五行”这几个字应该非常熟悉,然而,现今又有几个人真正明白当中意义呢?背得出五行的人应该不少,但说得出为什么相生相克的又有几人? 在这五种物质间既相生亦相克,说到最后就是“平衡”、“中庸”。这“道”,就是中华文化哲理的中心了。

今天先不说那些深奥的意义,且让我这个外行人以最浅白的方式帮助你记下这些环环相扣的根本:


我是这样给记住的:
水生木(有水树木才能茁壮成长),木生火(钻木取火),火生土(木都烧成灰土了),土生金(金属都是埋在土里的),金生水(据说产矿的地方多水)
水克火(以水灭火嘛),火克金(不是都以高温炼铁吗?),金克木(都是用金属工具伐木的),木克土(树木往土里扎根),土克水(以前都是用土堤防水的)

木-春-风、火-夏-热、金-秋-燥、水-冬-冷、土-长夏-湿:应该都是相当直接的联想,照理考不倒大家

Saturday 25 June 2011

What Do You Have in Your Pushcart?

I have to admit. I've never heard of Efren Peñaflorid until the day he gave speech in the 2011 MDRT Experience. Or maybe our newspaper did publish the news when he was named CNN Hero of the Year for 2009 but I was too ignorance then? 





Anyway, having the opportunity to listen to this young gentleman is a great experience. He is sincere, humble and noble. When "normal" teenagers busy dealing with their hormon issues, Efren turned his dream into reality. He pushes his little cart of classroom and reach out to those that do not have education opportunity. At age of 16, he started the "Dynamic Teen Company" with the aim to help others. They are making small yet significant effort.


Let us, i mean everyone of us, start our one small step of good deed today!


"Before, a pushcart was a symbol of poverty, but now it is a symbol of hope and education" ~ Efren Penaflorida

X-men: First Class

我原本不想再看super hero movies了,真的,倦了厌了。已经几年的精神轰炸了,好莱坞还是没有半点停下来让人歇一歇的念头。X-men系列也已经渐显疲态,Hugh Jackman再有魅力,还是无法挽救X-Men Origins - Wolverine……会到戏院去看X-men First Class,完全是为了想体验在戏院里坐在bean beg上看戏的感觉。为此,我和恩特地跑到First Avenue去。无奈我们到现场时票已售完,总不可能白走一趟吧?当然是买普通的票进场咯(还买一送一呢!)

意料之外的是,这竟然是至今最好看的一部X-men。Professor X 和 Magneto 的童年故事叙述得简单紧凑,感情铺排细腻,导演Matthew Vaughn把Professor X 和 Magneto的“未来性格”、未来交手时的理所当然与矛盾的悲剧铺排得这么的理所当然,一班mutant的感情和成长写得天真好玩真挚,最重要的是,James McAvoy和Micheal Fassbender的荧幕魅力无法挡。
作为百分百娱乐片,它,成功!

Sunday 19 June 2011

一只熊猫的成长

这世界上,有多少人能抵御熊猫那笨呼呼超级可爱迷死人不赔命的魅力?更何况是一只会讲话会功夫被鹅养大的熊猫?

我错过了在电影院看Kungfu Panda的机会,只能和老弟在家里坐在电脑前笑得眼泪直流。所以,Kungfu Panda 2是我无论如何一定要到戏院里去和一群不认识的小孩子们一起笑翻天的。意外的是,Kungfu Panda 2的笑料不如第一集(至少我没有笑到泪流满脸),故事却比第一集更鲜明精彩,电影角色刻画也比第一集深刻丰富(这一次我终于对Furious 5有感情了)。而且,好莱坞很少能够把中国元素拿捻得着么好的。我有点叹为观止。单单是影片开场戏部分类似于剪纸和皮影风格的细腻画面就可以让许多中国电影人惭愧了。End credit的中国元素也是趣味怏然的,让我想起小时候那些薄薄一小本的哪咤、西游记等中国漫画……曲终人散时有点儿恍惚……



在所有角色中,我最爱的非Lord Shen莫属,除了因为Gary Oldman,也因为他简直‘有型’到‘爆’!他第一次亮相时以尾巴为武器横扫,然后来个漂亮的孔雀开屏,一气呵成的动作设计真的令很多武侠电影汗颜的。(不知为什么,电影史上,坏人总是比好人更能带来视觉上的震撼。你看Lord Vader vs Master Yoda; Lord Shen vs Master Shifu / Po,在视觉上总是气势vs滑稽的。当然,精神上仍然是正派的哲理更能打动人心。你看Po和Shifu的四两拨千斤!那天人合一,万物一体的哲理;那以柔克刚,以静制动的精神!还真的不得不佩服Dreamworks那班天才,以熊猫黑白带出太极阴阳这样深邃的哲学,真是亏他们想得到。)
杨紫琼的声音演出也意外的出色(对不起,对于我们的这位拿督演员,我虽然觉得她优雅有型,但很少把她和“演技派”放在一块儿)。她演活了带有神经质的,东方智慧和神秘的综合。

电影情节在这儿不说了,只能告诉你的是,只要你求的是视觉上的盛宴以及绝对的娱乐,Kungfu Panda 2一定不会令你失望。

Thursday 16 June 2011

Super 8

Super 8 一口气点了我的几个死穴:
1. Steven Speilberg - 任何电影海报,只要加上这位天才电影人的名字,必定可以轻易把我骗进戏院。如果有一天外星人跑来我家求我给意见,说要把Hollywood铲平,只想留下两个电影人,让一切从新开始,我一定会说,留下Steven Spielberg和Walt Disney吧(我本来想说只留下一个人的,但想来想去,我毕竟还是不舍得Disney那一支的娱乐文化。)
2. 科幻 - 我是科幻题材的死忠支持者。写得好的科幻小说、拍得好的科幻电影,有时候好比哲学入门,那是让你禁不住思考着那些未知……
3. J. J. Abrams - 老实说,我从来不是他的影迷,在Star Trek之前我甚至连他的名字都不曾听过。然而,自从他把那个渐显疲态的老题材搞得有声有色、神采飞扬、精彩万分后,我一直想知道他还有多少板斧,还能够给我们多少惊喜……
4. Dakota Fanning(别误会, 我绝对知道女主角是Elle Fanning)- 自从Taken开始,我就爱上她了。她是天生的演员,有一种令人无法抽开视线的魅力,叫人随着她的角色的喜怒哀乐而微笑、叹息、流泪……为此,我很想知道,演绎细胞是不是遗传的,Elle Fanning是不是也如她姐姐在镜头前不容忽视的charisma。

以上四点再加上现在Citibank和TGV合作的buy 1 free 1 promotion,我实在找不到不去戏院看这部电影的理由。

这部电影究竟有多好看呢?
如果你和我一样缅怀七十年代末、八十年代初的浪漫(以及Steven Spielberg式的天真单纯),如果你也认为科幻电影的故事远比CGI来得重要,如果你已经对super heroes电影有了审美疲劳,你一定会爱上这部电影。
如果你怀念那段远去的岁月,怀念那个仍然有梦想有热血有坚持有执著的自己,怀念那一段纯真的初恋,怀念志同道合而称兄道弟又绝无利益关系考量的友情,你一定会爱上这部电影。
如果你会单单因为“爱”这个主题而感动,你一定会爱上这部电影。

去电影院看吧,去坐在那黑漆漆的空间仰望大荧幕,去缅怀过去也好(给七字辈或更老的),去窥视七十年代末也好(给八字辈或更年轻的),去体会导演简单却有力的叙事能力也好,去看年轻演员们的出众演技和魅力也好(应该真的有演绎基因这一回事吧,Elle Fanning绝对不比姐姐逊色!老天,你看她那会说话的眼睛!!而Joel Courtney,哎哟,这小孩怎么能这么轻易地以爱与痛牵引着我的情绪? ),甚至是单纯的为了娱乐也好,去电影院看吧,有一些电影是属于大荧幕的。

(剧终后别急着离场,Charles这‘大导演’的"The Case"方要上映!而且,过后你别忘了随着My Sharona轻快节奏边唱边摇 )

Thursday 9 June 2011

Full of Shit!!

对不起,用了这么粗俗的标题。不过,待你读完了这篇博文,你就知道我绝无喧众取宠,这绝对是再适合不过的标题了。
这件事虽然已经是几个月前的事了,但经当事人生动的讲述,我仍觉得活到百岁天下仍有新鲜事,实在应该在这儿为大家讲述这事发过程,好让大家有所警惕……

我的堂外甥今年十岁,是小胖一名,体重决对远远超出了普通成年女性。在学校因不是“普通的乖小孩”而小有名气。某日,堂姐接到学校的紧急电话,说小胖忽然病倒了,须要家长速到学校。堂姐丢下手头上所有的工作,和另一名热心的同事十万火急赶到现场。到了学校,还有专人特地指挥交通,让堂姐可以在违规的情况下反方向在单行道行驶,好让她可以更快速的直驶到学校大门口,特允她把车子停在最靠近课室楼梯口的地方。堂姐突然受到如此Super VIP待遇,更是觉得事有蹊跷。
堂姐下车后,第一眼便看见爱儿正脸青青一脸痛苦地坐在木椅上呻吟。心痛。把视线焦点移开,才发觉两位女老师出尽牛力扛着一个坐在木椅上的小胖艰辛地走下楼梯。师生皆汗流浃背:老师流的是劳碌汗,小胖冒的是冷汗。当班主任简练地向堂姐讲述小胖病情时,堂姐发觉只要轻轻抚摸他的肚子就足以让他泪流汗流的,好不可怜。老师们都说从未见过小孩肚子疼到这种地步(经验老到的老师还很肯定这绝不是盲肠炎),看来必非普通伤风感冒肚疼这么简单,都游说堂姐把他给送去医院好好检验。
小胖站不直走不动,只好把他扛上车,然后直奔槟州中央医院。急诊室医生也无法直接判断病情,所以小胖得经历X光等一连串的详细检查。堂姐在急诊室外的心烦气躁可想而知。仿如几个世纪之后,检验结果终于出炉,医生宣布:“没事。只是大肠挤满了粪便,宿便让身体无法负荷,才会导致他痛苦万分”。真的,这真的诠释了“啼笑皆非”!

这个故事教训我们:
1. 小孩便秘绝对是一件可大可小的事,不可忽视。
2. 小孩便秘时,即使每天躲进厕所,别相信他真的是在大便。
3. 无论在什么情况下,full of shit总是教人痛苦的。

Thursday 2 June 2011

吓死!

我总是相信,等我年老体衰、心脏衰竭时,总有一天,我会被蟑螂吓死的。谁知道,这一次真的是被吓死了,不过,死的是小强。

话说我早上背着书包高高兴兴蹦蹦跳跳地下楼上班,突然间瞧见楼梯墙上的小强,事发突然,那个理性的我来不及反应,我已经本能地以高八度频率大叫一声,然后以时速三十公里奔下楼去。我在楼下慌张向上偷看,发觉死鬼小强逃到楼上去了,心很乱,但无能为力,只好若无其事的上班去。

放工回家后,爸说:“我看见你早上打的蟑螂躺在垃圾桶旁,以为你没丢,想要捡起来丢进垃圾桶里,谁知道它还没有死,我才把它打死了。”(这些年来,无论发生什么事,老爸对于我的胆量总是非常有信心的)
我心虚,只好轻描淡写地承认“我没打蟑螂。我只是看到它在墙上,喊了一声就上班去了。”

爸和恩异口同声说:“那一定是被你吓死了!”我想想,还挺有道理的,它既然有把我吓死的potential,我当然也有把它吓死的能耐。只是,这么一来,我和蟑螂之间的多年恩怨再度升级了……

Thursday 26 May 2011

How to Turn Impossible Into Success

Until now, I still can't believe this! Alvin Lee actually leave a comment in my blog!! I got so excited this morning in my office when I saw his comment through gmail (we can't access to blogs through company internet). I'm dying to come home and tell the whole world that the person that inspire me actually leave a comment in my blog!! :-)

OK, so you heard me talking about the speech. Now you can go to the following link to view the highlights of his speech "The 2011 MDRT Experience: How to Turn Impossible Into Success"
http://youtu.be/c0lgMWejQHE

Tuesday 3 May 2011

Building Your Sandcastles

I attended the MDRT Experience in Singapore a few months back, and I was inspired by all the great speakers, where they have been doing their very best to strive for success in all areas of their lives. I have been planning to blog about some of the great speakers and their inspiring speeches. Finally, here I am :) 

I'd like to start with my favorite, the last speaker of the first long day who lighten up the hall. His spirit is so high that he made all of us laughed, sighed, gasped and held back a tear: Alvin Lee - The Sand Castle Builder from Castle Can Fly. Too bad that I can't share his original speech here......


He is the type of father that every kids dream of. When his kids (including his own children and niece) wanted to learn drawing, he let them start with A4 paper, then Mahjong paper, and they ended up drawing murals in his house! (kids never learn how to draw within the paper, he said). When his kids wanted to learn to fly a kite, he made them a kite so big that he can tie his younger son on it and try to fly him! (I think you can get the idea on all the fun that his kids enjoyed as a kid)


Building sandcastles started out as one of those fun weekend activities for his children and niece. Since he believe in "if you want to dream, dream BIG", they went to library to do some research and they decided to make a sand castle like the one in the right! 

He then discovered that there was actually no sandcastle-making kit in the market (that was in mid of1990s). He went to Singapore Toys R Us and the manager told him that "if you can't find it here, you can't find it elsewhere". He tried to call his friends and relatives in Australia, US and Europe, he also fax to a few key toy makers then but all came back with negative answers. He then turned his kitchen into a workshop(salute his wife!), started to saw pipes, making blocks etc that can be used to mould the sand for the different parts of sandcastle. From initial basic drawings of lines and shapes, he went on to modelling and prototyping of his newly created toy designs with plastic items. With those prototypes and amazing experiments, his kids enjoyed the homemade sandcastle building set. 
A good friend of him pointed him towards commercialising the self-made tools into a business venture. So he tried to sell this idea to a few toys company, including Singapore Toys R Us. The GM then told him that toy business profit margin is paper-thin and he assure Alvin that his new design is not going to make it. He almost wanted to give up but "How do you tell your children that it cannot be done? That you want to give up?" So he resigned from the corporate world (he's a GM in a MNC then), flew to US with his business plan and passion, and successfully launched and marketed his Beachworks Brand in major toy stores in the United States since 1997. He came back to Singapore with a patent that pay so well that he can stop working for at least 3 years. He went to Singapore Toys R Us again, the GM said "See, I've told you, you'll make it!" :)

I can imagine all the rejections and difficulties that he has to face, and the courage to resign from a well-paid position to become an entrepreneur. Only great people with vision and perseverance can make it happened. Most of us have dreams, and yet, we let them stay as dreams. Actions may not ensure your success, but only actions can make the dreams come true.....Let's act NOW!


If you have built castles in the air, your work need not be lost; that is where they should be. Now put foundations under them. ~ Henry David Thoreau




An example of his sand castle building training: http://youtu.be/jmuYPjksoec

Engineer, Innovator, Entrepreneur, Author, Motivational Speaker, Corporate Trainer, and A Family Man. Those are what Alvin Lee all about.

Sunday 24 April 2011

人生真美好

从槟岛驾往半岛,倒后镜是槟岛山脉的轮廓,眼前是亲切的大山脚Cheruk Tokun,两旁是一片蔚蓝碧绿斑驳着波光粼粼,路上飞驰的车子在和煦阳光下反射着银光,大桥上充满着生命力。
车内温度适中舒服,收音机播放着轻快活跃的音乐。我忍不住要赞叹,人生真美好!